What to talk when meeting a girl for a pre-marriage meeting?

Hi,





I shall soon be meeting a girl (and a family) whom my parents have chosen for me to get married to.





I will soon be in a situation where I'll find myself sitting alone with the girl, and most importantly required to decide about our married life. If it's going to work or not etc etc...





Can you pls suggest what should be asked (or things) that can be the topic of discussion at the moment.





Thanks,


NWhat to talk when meeting a girl for a pre-marriage meeting?
Why are having your parents chose who you are going to marry? that makes no sense your not in the 18th century anymore, why can't you find a bride yourself???What to talk when meeting a girl for a pre-marriage meeting?
Discuss your values, what do you both feel is important.


Talk about children, how do you think you should raise them, what kind of schooling should they have, what religious values should they have... what method of discipline matters to you.





Discuss pets.... talk about jobs and education for yourselves... where do you both see yourself going and how will you get there.





Do you both want to stay where you live.. or do you plan on living somewhere else?





Talk about MONEY, how you will pay bills, who will keep track of it, your thoughts on credit cards and spending practices, saving practices.





These are very important and you will find if you will like her or not by asking these questions.
Discuss your values, what do you both feel is important.


Talk about children, how do you think you should raise them, what kind of schooling should they have, what religious values should they have... what method of discipline matters to you.





Discuss pets.... talk about jobs and education for yourselves... where do you both see yourself going and how will you get there.





Do you both want to stay where you live.. or do you plan on living somewhere else?





Talk about MONEY, how you will pay bills, who will keep track of it, your thoughts on credit cards and spending practices, saving practices.





These are very important and you will find if you will like her or not by asking these questions.
just go with the flow.don't plan anything,it surely doesn't go according to the desired plan when one is present in such a sitution. just talk about your school, college,your hobbies and workplace etc etc.....


i know it gets a little intense so make sure you make the girl comfortable and just try and be little polite and caring


i think that'll seal the deal....
just talk like a friend and ask their name