Friday, July 30, 2010

For people who've had arranged marriages: would you want your kids to have an arranged marriage?

One of my friends had an arranged marriage and from the outside it looks like a really good match - they seem really happy together and seem to get on really well. However the wife apparently regrets not having been able to date before getting married, and is quite adament that their children will not have an arranged marriage.For people who've had arranged marriages: would you want your kids to have an arranged marriage?
Your children should not marry each other for genetic reasons.For people who've had arranged marriages: would you want your kids to have an arranged marriage?
That has long been the traditional way in China, and it is best, because parents are older and wiser than their children and can make better choices than they can in any matter. Dating is highly over-rated. Generally, two people who know next to nothing about one another date for various reasons, few if any of them logical. When your parents choose a spouse for you, you avoid all the problems caused by indiscriminate dating. You join your whole family including ancestors in making a commitment to your spouse. If I marry some day and have children, my husband will arrange marriages for them to avoid the problems of immature people dating and often marrying too soon and choosing the wrong person, not to mention having children out of wedlock.
i am 13 am gonna get married to my girlfriend when i turn 14 because it is legal and our moms arranged us a marriage because she was raped by my brother and had a baby when she was 9 an arranged marriage is a great idea
no i think it is unfair to have an arranged marrriage i think you should choose the right person for you and your parents just have to approve
Hmmmmm...





How %26amp; Where do I ';Arrange a Marriage';? How are the prices???

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