My sister met a friend at nursery school when she was 4. They were inseperable. They married aged 18. That was 45 years ago!! 3 great kids. 12 granchildren and one great granchild. Thay still go everywhere holding hands, and even snog in the back row of the movies. lol.
For them, it's forever. But it takes two to make it work. It's rare to find such devotion these days I'm afraid, but it CAN work if you both want the same things in life. As long as you want them together. It's called a 'Fairytale romance'. Go for it. Best of luck.Can a teenage relationship workout and end up in marriage?
THE RIGHT AGE FOR MARRIAGE
Leaving out the opinions on this, I’m going to cover the facts of what’s it’s like to be in a “LONG TERM” relationship.
First, it is an established statistical fact that relationships involving people who co-habitat and/or get married prior to age 24 have an 85% failure rate. Biologically, this is when females reach full mature on the physical, emotional, and hormonal levels. At this point, a woman is fully prepared to have and handle children, as well as a male that is still not fully mature.
Males don’t reach full physical and hormonal maturity until age 30. This is also when they reach their peak emotional maturity, but not to the point of being fully independent. Half of the male emotional health comes from a woman. The biochemical frequency range of the male brain adjusts itself to match that of the female, developing an emotional symbiotic relationship.
Couples who begin cohabiting and/or get married prior to age 24 can find themselves drawing away from each other as each reaches full maturity. Their whole view of the world, and each other, changes. This doesn’t happen to all couples, but clearly it is a factor in most relationship breakdowns.
In a couple, who has made the right choices, and found that person who truly compliments them, a symbiotic relationship develops also on the physical level. There is a reason why humans were designed to be monogamous. It comes down to the sexual experience that goes beyond pleasure and reproduction.
Seminal plasma (fluid carrying semen) and vaginal fluids contain addition chemicals that the other sex needs. Chemicals in seminal plasma help strengthen the Uterine Wall, not only making it stronger for the carrying of a fetus, but also because the uterus provides physical support for other organs, such as the bladder and the intestinal tract. For males, vaginal fluid reinforces their immune system and affects future production of semen. But, there’s a downside.
The human body adapts to the specific molecular makeup of the seminal plasma and vaginal fluid. The two bodies develop a symbiotic relationship that becomes dependent upon the other. Having multiple partners keeps these functions in constant disarray, always trying to adapt to a new molecular makeup, affecting the overall health of the individual.
This is one of the reasons, and benefits, of developing a long term monogamous relation. For men, there are additional reasons.
A married male lives 20 years longer than a single male, on average. Aside from the physical symbiosis, because a woman provides emotional support, he has less stress, an overall cause of frequent death in males.
For a female, her reproductive and sexual health last longer, not only with the ability to reproduce into her 40s and even 50s, but also continue the ability for sexual pleasure well into the later years.
A monogamous couple become a single, symbiotic unit, standing ready to take on what the world throws at them. They provide the umbrella of strength for the family and the protection of the children. They are core from which the children draw their knowledge and experience of what a family should be, so that they may follow the example of the parents, when they reach maturity and venture out into the world.
This is what it is truly like to be in a relationship, when you make the right choices.
I met my husband when we were both 15 years old and we're still together now 10 years later. We he have been very happily married for almost 3 years now and honestly out of all the married couples we know, we are the closest and happiest. We are both faithful and dedicated to each other.
It doesn't happen often but it DOES happen. Don't ever let anyone tell you any different.
it is more than possible, myself and my partner met when i was 16 1/2 and he was 17 1/2 and we're still together we're 37 and 39 now with two boys so yes it can happen if the two of you share the same basic love and respect for each other. my son is 19 and him and his girlfriend have been together now for over 4 yrs and i hope they stay together forever.
I know i'm not married but i met my boyfriend when i was 16 and have been together for 6 years and are still going strong. weve never broken up buts thats not to say we haven't had problems. my parents met when my mum was 17, had me and married at 18 and are still happily married 22 years on. Sounds like something has prompted this question thats making you doubt your relationship. Don't worry about the future, just wonder and live in the now with your partner and either it will work or it won't. No one can tell you only time can. Good Luck
its not common, but yeah it does happen if the boy and girl feel very strong for each other. That's why on the tell all the time you hear the boy or girl saying so and so was my childhood sweat heart. Meaning they had been together since they were teenagers.
my husband and i started going out a month before my 16th birthday. 22 years and 5 kids later we are still together. I think it depends on the people. i have never felt the urge to have fun with other people.
I think it depends... but I know some people that met and started going out at 12 and got married... it really does depend on the situation though, if the boy and girl are truly committed to each other then I think its possible.
Depends on how committed you are to the other person and whether they are committed to you. I met my future husband at 16, we're still together ** years later.
ya it is possible if really true love exists...there are people awaiting for their love for years...it is possible dear,,....!!!
I think yes. this will be the safiest relationship, for more click here http://teenagerelationship.blogspot.com/
Yes, but it will end in a rapid divorce too.
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