What did couples did to create love in arranged marriage.?

and what did people in love marriage did to retain their love. Please write you experience. What do men / women do to make them happy.What did couples did to create love in arranged marriage.?
My dear when we have a pet either a cow or a dog in our house then too we start loving it and you are talking about the feeling to be created for a human being?


If you respect and love other than you shall too get the same in return. Drop all the egos - it is the main hurdle. In both types of marriages you can also do to make life happy:


Exchange gifts or atleast give to your partner.


Always keep impotant dates in your mind and never forget to wish first.


Occassionally do not forget to say - I LOVE YOU.


RESPECT and CARE are two most imoptant qualities to keep the warmness between the two.


To give weightage to others opinion.


and last but not the least - Never have any expectation from your partner. Expectations know no bounderies and hence dissatisfaction starts.What did couples did to create love in arranged marriage.?
Again, a Wrong or Miss Understood question in my view.


The very first thing that Love can not be created at all. It may exist, it may happen, it may open the door for it.


Love is not a kind of act or object which can be performed or created. And this is the real fact which either do not accept or don't want to accept.





An arrange marriage is a bond of feelings, bond of emotion, bond of RESPONSIBILITY which come to the ground once two unknown entity are bonded in a social certification of being social couple.


When you are a human being and driven by your heart, but not mind, there is nothing to do to create the love in your arranged marriage life.


It would happen automatically and miraculously. Then, your spouse you are living with, has been giving you every touch of feeling, emotions and care. Affection starts by and then Love happens.
When a man and a woman come close - the attraction does occur. Attraction lead to liking to love. The best expression of love is undeniably good sex. Bad sex slowly drifts into friction. To be on the same wavelength adds to their chemistry but marriage devoid of good sex only become drab. Good Sex is the soul of happy married life. Deep down in the bottom even the slightest dissatisfaction in sex life reflects on the surface although differently or un-indentifiably.
I am not sure but I have to say I know two doctors that had arranged Marriage. them and there wifes look so happy and in love! Sometimes it must be nice to have a man not have to be someone he is not cause he knows he already has you so what u see is what u get i guess....and like with us are men are so nice until they have us and then the true colors come out and most of those colors are not very nice!
I've been married for 22 years and I can answer this in one word ';respect';. Someone who respects you and your opinions can make you so happy in the long run. Doesn't matter how alike or different you are if you respect each other and try to work together to find compromises.
arranged marriage is relation between a man and woman arranged by social custom. so the couple have to cohabit by social custom. if there is no serious difference among them, the very process of living together generates love. they do the same things as lovers do.
They let each other be...who they are and what they are.


They do NOT control the behaviour of their partner, because nobody has a right in ANY relationship to control the other (unless the other parmits it)