What to talk when meeting a girl for a pre-marriage meeting?

Hi,





I shall soon be meeting a girl (and a family) whom my parents have chosen for me to get married to.





I will soon be in a situation where I'll find myself sitting alone with the girl, and most importantly required to decide about our married life. If it's going to work or not etc etc...





Can you pls suggest what should be asked (or things) that can be the topic of discussion at the moment.





Thanks,


NWhat to talk when meeting a girl for a pre-marriage meeting?
Ask her does she want a planed marriage that her parent have chosen for her or does she want to marry for love of her own chose.You seem to be relaxed about it I don't stand how you can be but just be yourselfWhat to talk when meeting a girl for a pre-marriage meeting?
Before you marry anyone, you should dicuss things like... children. How many do you want ? how many does she want? When you have children is she going to stay home with them? are they going in day care? Where do you want to live? Is the wife going to work? What is important for you in a wife? What does she excpect from you as a husband? How important is your family going to be in your married life? How important is her family going to be in your married life? What kind of religion will be practiced in the home? What kind of finacial life does she expect? does she expect you be the bread winner? How do each of you feel about divorce? Is it never allowed or are there certian rules?


you know basic stuff... if you dont know what to talk about maybe you shouldnt be getting married.
talk about her families health ,


are they diabetics heart problems, cancers,down syndrome,high pressure, and others.


a lot of health problems are passed down to children.


so if you have kidds they will have the same health issues.


how many kidds are you gonna have?


religion?


where are you gonna be spendding the holidays?


if she will be faithful?
before you get married start a courtship with the woman and take her out to see if you have anything in common